My brother and I grew up with abuse, and we’ve each spent a lifetime finding ways to manage the trauma it left behind. We came through the same childhood, but we handle chaos very differently. Each of us has found his own ways to overcome it.
This song grew from recognizing those differences and wanting to share what we’ve learned with each other later in life. Maybe something that helped one of us can help the other find a little more peace.
Lyrics
We both learned it early
Chaos wore our father's name
We stood beneath the same wild sky
And found two ways to face the rain
You learned to hold the pieces
Keep each one where it should stay
I learned I could still love
From a little farther away
You can't hold the sky together
You can't hold the sky together
You can't reason with the rain
You can brace each door and window
Still the weather won't obey
We survived in different ways
I know why you guard your world
But there ain't no peace in holdin'
What was never our job to hold
I know why you grasp things so tightly
Keep the world within your reach
Why order became the shelter
Where you went to look for peace
But you'll wear yourself out watchin'
Every cloud that passes through
Always tryin' to manage weather
Till the storm is managin' you
You can't hold the sky together
You can't reason with the rain
You can brace each door and window
Still the weather won't obey
We survived in different ways
I know why you guard your world
But there ain't no peace in holdin'
What was never our job to hold
I ain't sayin' I know better
We did what we had to do
I just found a little quiet
And I want the same for you
Love can reach across a distance
It don't have to live that close
Sometimes peace begins by layin' down
What was never our job to hold
You can't hold the sky together
You can't reason with the rain
You can brace each door and window
Still the weather won't obey
We survived him different ways
I know why you guard your world
But there ain't no peace in holdin'
What was never our job to hold
We can't hold the sky together
Lord knows we both have tried
